When dealing with someone who feels they can make their own set of rules and that they should be able to have whatever they want, whenever they want it. They feel superior as if they deserve a special set of rules and treatment. They easily become indignant and petulant when someone suggests that they don’t quite agree with the narcissist’s superiority complex.
The concept of give & take reciprocity is entirely lost on a narcissist. Because they believe that you owe them to be subservient to their needs, wants and whims – they view your attempt to get reciprocal action as an affront, insult and control move. How DARE you take something the narcissist deserves away from them! They have serious trouble being on the receiving end of the word NO and are very acidic and downright abusive with their response and furthermore feel NO REMORSE for their inability to empathize with others.
Before you even attempt to point this out to them, rest assured that YOU will be accused of doing exactly what they are actively engaged in doing right that moment. They will tell you that YOU throw temper tantrums because you've been told no. They will tell you that YOU are being controlling. They will tell you that YOU are petulant, obtuse, and dramatic. They will tell you that YOU don't know how to cooperate, and that YOU are being selfish and thinking only of yourself and your own wants. They will insist that THEY are kind, compassionate, cooperative, and selfless. They will even tell you that YOU like rewrite and revise events to fit your delusions. They basically will list out all of their own sins and point them all at you. They simply speak to mirrors and don't realize how far out of reality they really are.
Before you even attempt to point this out to them, rest assured that YOU will be accused of doing exactly what they are actively engaged in doing right that moment. They will tell you that YOU throw temper tantrums because you've been told no. They will tell you that YOU are being controlling. They will tell you that YOU are petulant, obtuse, and dramatic. They will tell you that YOU don't know how to cooperate, and that YOU are being selfish and thinking only of yourself and your own wants. They will insist that THEY are kind, compassionate, cooperative, and selfless. They will even tell you that YOU like rewrite and revise events to fit your delusions. They basically will list out all of their own sins and point them all at you. They simply speak to mirrors and don't realize how far out of reality they really are.
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