Narcissists Believe
…that their every emotion is deeply important, but everyone else is “overreacting”…that rules are for everyone but them.…that wherever they are, they’re the best person to take over the show immediately.…the most valuable thing other people can do is give them attention and serve them.
…that those in positions of influence never deserve their roles.
…that everyone is boring, stupid, unappealing, wrong – except them
.…that anyone opposing their views is bad, and must be stopped.
…that the wrong things they do are fair, and the fair things you do are wrong.
…if they can’t be worshiped, they should be pitied (for not being justifiably worshiped).
…that all relationships (even family) are competitive games of control they must “win”.
…that people have 2 choices – provide admiration/empathy, or experience retribution.
…that boundaries are an attack.
…that there’s always SOMETHING they can use as a “reason” to look down on someone.
…that a compliment is something people have to say to get what they want.
…that all the less-worthy people need to get out of their way.
…that therapy is for inferior people (you), or for confirming their beliefs & victimhood.
…that everyone around them must either submit or be banished.
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